LONG ISLAND VOICE OF THE FAITHFUL REGIONAL MEETING - JUNE 9, 2005 Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Shelter Rock,Manhasset, NY MINUTES The meeting was opened and Board of Directors Co-Chair, Pat Zirkel, welcomed the members. Opening Prayer Denis McKeown All: In the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen. Opening Song: Christ, Be Our Light Refrain: Christ, be our light, LITANY TO THE HOLY SPIRIT I have a sad, and then a happy announcement to make to you. Sadly, two of our Board members - Janet Godfrey, our Secretary, and Jim Godfrey - have had to resign from the Board for business and family reasons. You know, we are often asked, why aren't more young (that is, not gray-haired) people involved in VOTF? Our answer is that young families have so many responsibilities that it is difficult for them to take the leap of also being involved in trying to reform the Church. But for almost three years, the Godfreys gave the lie to that. However, Jim's extensive business travel and their seven children finally caught up with their strong desire to help build a church they could pass on to those children. In spite of many of us assuring them that their children have to come first, they are still very disappointed that they had to resign. Happily, however, as of this week, we have a full complement of Board members again. According to our By-Laws, the Board elects new members to fill such vacancies in its ranks. This past week, with all remaining Board members participating, two persons were elected to take the vacant seats on the Board until October. These are Johanna DiGiovanni (who also serves on the Prayer Team) and Jean McQuaid (an acting Province Coordinator from the North Fork). [Both were introduced.]We are very grateful to have both of these fine people on our Board. My second issue is brief: The Diocese has put together a working committee to plan for a Diocesan Pastoral Council. Last month, LI VOTF sent a letter to this committee, criticizing the proposed selection process for the council. We had two major criticisms: To be specific:
1. The proposed council has 22 members. The good news is that Dan has been in contact with the working committee, and they were to discuss our letter at a recent meeting. Retreat Among many topics of discussion: We talked about our calling - by that I mean the calling (or vocation) of this entire organization - to be a prophetic witness to what the Church in the 21st century might be. And last but not least, we were urged to consider our personal giftedness. In the context of the day, this was addressed to the issue of burnout and fatigue. In other words, if a person is using the gifts that God gave him or her, the gifts and the use of them should be a source of energy. If you are fatigued and in danger of burnout, it means that you are focusing your energies in the wrong places. I was sitting and praying over this, and over how to present all this to you, when I serendipitously read the gospel for this past Tuesday, June 7th - which was all about you! It's from Matthew, chapter 5, verses 13 - 16: You are the salt of the earth...You are the light of the world. A city built on a hill cannot be hid. No one after lighting a lamp puts it under the bushel basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven. How often do you think of yourselves as 'salt of the earth' and 'light of the world?' I've known a few of you for years, and know how good you are. But I keep meeting other people in this organization who are just remarkable in their goodness. I don't know why God has blessed all of us with such wonderful companionship, but he certainly has. Please be secure in your goodness. Right now, I'd like to take a couple of minutes for a process we haven't tried in a while. If I were Monty Python I'd say: "And now for something completely different..." Take a minute, to think about the gifts that God has given to you. The gifts of family....insight into the church's problems....education....compassion.... I'm sure there are others.Please take two or three minutes to talk to your immediate neighbor about your gifts. The question I'd like to propose is: What gifts have you discovered since you joined Voice of the Faithful? Or, what has your involvement in VOTF brought out of you in a new way? What have you discovered about yourself through VOTF? After your brief discussions, I'm going to open the microphone for a few minutes. [Small group discussions continued briefly]Members Speak: Member from Pt. Jefferson: Suggestion to make an instructional video on VOTF membership and distribute to/through public libraries. Tom Myles: The best gift is that our voices are heard. Gene Zirkel: We can all be successful in bringing VOTF into our parishes in two ways - as an intention in mass petitions; as a published mass intention. Nancy Massaro: OL of Victory, Fl. Park -- 'thrilled to be part of this Christian Community! Penny Duggan: Has gained the ability to not be afraid of the hierarchy. She's now determined to have masses said for VOTF in her parish. Susan Stalzer: Queen of H.R., -- 'we have become very good letter-writers' to the Bishop. His latest response said that he refuses to correspond with her any longer! Tom Trunkes: St. Eliz. of Hungary, Melville -- Before the scandal and his membership he had unquestioning respect for priests and hierarchy. Now he realizes that we are better Christians than some of them. Lisa Braglia: The ability to 'listen for my calling.' That calling for Lisa is to stand outside St. Agnes Cathedral for the first Sunday vigils with the Vigils committee being a witness for victims. A VOTO and VOTF member: Refers to a talk he heard about 'standing in the fire' . . . this past Sunday he went to the vigil and 'stood in the fire.' Johanna DiGiovanni: Affirms the inspiration and direction of the Spirit - feels that our history and direction confirm that we are Spirit-directed. Following these, Pat Zirkel thanks all and introduces Pat Paone to introduce principal speaker. Sr. Karol Jackowski, Ph.D. Karol spent half of her life as a nun at Saint Mary's College, first as a student and then as an administrator in various capacities. In 1990, she moved to New York City to finish her Ph.D. at New York University. During this time, she also was the chief operating officer of an East Village novelty store called Alphabets. In 1995, Karol left the Sisters of the Holy Cross and became part of the Sisters for Christian Community, an independent, self-governing sisterhood. Karol is now a full-time writer and is also the author of Sister Karol's Book of Spells and Blessings and Ten Fun Things To Do Before You Die. She lives in New York City. SR. KAROL JACKOWSKI, Ph.D.
"The Second Pentecost: A Priesthood of the People"Asks prayers for members of SNAP, meeting this weekend in Denver. Describes meeting with SNAP members last year. The present scandal has not yet transformed the hierarchy or even the religious orders of women. But it has transformed the laity in owning their priesthood . . . as evidenced by the members who just came forward to express the gifts of the spirit they are feeling now. Religion is being taken back into our hands and homes . . . the sense that the Spirit is alive here in VOTF and that this is the church of the future. Explains how her latest book came about. When the scandal broke she felt distanced because she did not know anyone who had been abused and didn't know of any abusing priests. Questions: -- How did this happen? Is this the end of the church? Genesis of the book: first an article for Rosie Magazine; then editor suggested the book. This occasioned research on the priesthood through the history of the church -- early church, middle ages, through modern times. Trends: Her conclusion is that the priesthood - as we've known it - is fading. Therefore, the church of 'Catholics out of the pew' vastly outnumber those 'in the pew' . . . Then she focused study on the religious orders of women. She discovered that a large percentage of sisters have been sexually abused. The sisters don't talk of it. Even when it is 'on the table' there is silence about it. Even among women who live together, they don't divulge it or talk about it. She advocates the removal of statute of limitations for all sex crimes. Re women religious of the Middle Ages -- a time when women were forced into the convent; open sexual permissiveness when large monasteries of men and women existed side by side. The double standard of how priests and sisters were treated after sexually acting out. Men welcomed back; sisters shunned by their own orders What is Pentecost? It was a moment that transformed. If we look at the present situation, the priesthood and the sisterhood are not being transformed. But transformation is happening among the laity. Consider the documents that were shredded once investigations began. If what has come to light is so damning; imagine what must have been destroyed. Her community-- originated in the 1970s -- 1972 'when massive amounts of sisters were leaving' a group of women who wanted to live the sisterhood differently joined together outside the hierarchical structure. In spite of the conflicts she 'still wanted to do church work.' But not in the current structures. They are now routinely called upon, mostly by Catholics who are not active in the church, but who are people vitally committed to their Catholic heritage. This is the priesthood that has already developed outside the church. Home churches. The model of church straight out of the early testaments . . . the new 'upper room' called to discover a new priesthood. This new priesthood of laity -- no exclusiveness; no sense of privilege. Probably no outrageous sexual permissiveness. Tells of a parish in Indiana -- preparation for confirmation --reads the words of a twelve-yr-old girl -- sees hope for the future of the church. Questions from Members:Q. Re use of the name Catholic as divisive and exclusive. Refers to the original "The way . . . " A. Used in terms of the inclusivity and openness. Q. What about the Eucharist? Doesn't that define what the Church is about? A. Affirms centrality of Eucharist; but expanded. Owns an expanded vision of Eucharist around any table where people gather in profound faith and sharing of the spirit . . . the sacramentality of gathering together. We can make that holy. The bonding of the spirit makes a gathering holy; makes Eucharist 'real'. The experience of the early church -- 'ordination by acclamation' -- recognition of gifts. The difficulty of transitioning from the ingrained traditions. Q. "This is the most pleasurable theology lesson I've ever had" A. Yes . . . it rings true. Doctrine of receptivity. Q. How did religious orders of women begin? A. One should consider Mary, Mother of God, as the first priest who 'literally gave us the body and blood of Christ.' Q. How do we stay in dialogue when we are labeled 'dissidents' or heretics? A. Focus on change in ourselves. Others will respond or not; follow or not. 70 per cent of Catholics are not in the pews . . . are walking away silent . . . only a matter of time before their numbers are heard. The Catholic inclination to community brings those who left together . . . 'going from town to town' just as the first followers of Jesus. Q. Re relation of eucharist to the ordained priesthood. Therefore how can we talk of an end of the priesthood? Q. Upset because of talk of an end of the priesthood as we know it. Supports priests of integrity. A. Encourages a broader view of the ordained priesthood. Comment from Board Member, Phil Megna: Voices concerns that speaker encourages a different tradition and institution rather than reform of the church community we are already committed to. Reminds listeners that those who speak to Long Island Voice of the Faithful do not necessarily represent our stated mission, goals or principles. However, we wish always to be inclusive in our conversations, and to model the Church that we would wish to have. Pat Zirkel: Thanks speaker. Affirms the positive aspects of listening to issues; of being open to hearing the views of others; of broadening our perspective. We need not agree with everything that is said. Committee reports:Nominating Committee Nancy Massaro Two brief points: Vigils committee Leo Cuomo 1. Change in date for next vigil - July 10th instead of July 3rd. Closing announcements: Pat Zirkel Closing Prayer Charles Kerner All: In the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen A PENTECOST BLESSINGBy Joyce Rupp May the endurance of the Holy Spirit leap incessantly within you and help you to live a vibrant life. All: Amen. May the warmth of the Holy Spirit's fire be extended through your concern and care for all who need your love. All: Amen. May the blaze of the Holy Spirit's courage enable you to speak the truth and to stand up for respect, dignity and justice. All: Amen. May the undying embers of the Holy Spirit's faithfulness support you when you feel dry and empty. All: Amen. May the strength of the Holy Spirit's love sustain your hope as you enter into the pain of our world. All: Amen. May the clear light of the Holy Spirit's guidance be a source of effective discernment and decision-making for you. All: Amen. May the Holy Spirit's patient endurance be yours while you wait for what is unknown to be revealed. All: Amen. May the steady flame of the Holy Spirit's goodness within you convince you every day of the power of your presence with others. All: Amen. May the joyful fire of the Holy Spirit dance within you and set happiness ablaze in your life. All: Amen. May the spark of your relationship with the Holy Spirit catch afire in the hearts of those with whom you live and work. All: Amen. ALL: May you be mindful of the Eternal Flame within you. May you rely on this Source of Love to be your constant ally and steady guide? Amen. All: In the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen. Respectfully submitted, Joan Psotto |